Showing posts with label health. Show all posts
Showing posts with label health. Show all posts

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Victim of gay conversion


  • Beaten repeatedly by his father after innocently telling him, aged 12, that he was attracted to his friend
  • Told he had AIDS, that he was the only gay person in the country and the government would kill him if they found out
  • Hands burned and frozen with ice while he was shown images of men hugging
  • Electrocuted for a month while shown explicit pictures of men
  • Has since been excommunicated by his family and warned by his father that he will shoot him if he ever comes home

    At just 12 years of age, Samuel Brinton had no idea he was not supposed to be attracted to other boys.

So when he told his father, a Southern Baptist missionary from Iowa, that friends had found a Playboy magazine - and that he didn't get excited like they did because he only felt that way about his best friend, Dale - he could never have predicted the torture that was to follow.
After being knocked out cold by his father, so hard that he had to be rushed to the Emergency Room, Samuel was repeatedly beaten up before being subjected to months of excruciating aversion therapy.

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Reflective: Samuel described in detail the horrors he experienced in conversion therapy as a young boy
Reflective: Samuel described in detail the horrors he experienced in conversion therapy as a young boy
He was initially told he had AIDS and that he was the only gay person left in the country - because the government had killed all the rest of them and would come after him too if they found out he was alive.
Freezing ice cubes were placed in his hands while he was shown pictures of men hugging - so that he would associate pain with intimacy between men.
He was then repeatedly burned when shown similar images but untouched when images of men and women together were shown.
'The Month of Hell consisted of tiny needles being stuck into my fingers and then pictures of explicit acts between men would be shown and I'd be electrocuted'
Eventually, he was subjected to what was called the 'Month of Hell'. Tiny needles were stuck into his small fingers and he was electrocuted repeatedly while shown explicit pictures of men.
After being excommunicated by his family almost a decade later, Samuel has spoken about the ordeal he suffered as a child at the hands of his Southern Baptist community.
Samuel was interviewed as part of a series of gay, lesbian bisexual and transgender stories from across America found by a group called I'm From Driftwood.
The forum's founder and executive director Nathan Manske travelled the country with two colleagues to discover the many untold stories of struggles faced by gay teens in small towns and cities.
Samuel, who now studies at Kansas State University, described in detail the abuse he suffered as a result of the innocent admission he made to his father when he was a child.
 

He speaks of being hospitalised by his father six times before the therapy even began, before describing in detail the 'treatment' to which he was subjected.
'The Month of Hell consisted of tiny needles being stuck into my fingers and then pictures of explicit acts between men would be shown and I'd be electrocuted,' he said.
After months of torture he considered suicide, climbing onto the roof of the three-storey building where he lived.
His mother's attempt to lure him down consisted of her saying: 'I'll love you again if you just change.'
Fighter: Samuel was raised in a Southern Baptist community and was not accepted for being gay
Fighter: Samuel was raised in a Southern Baptist community and was not accepted for being gay
Story: Samuel has told of his ordeal to help others who may be going through similar experiences with parents who don't accept their sexuality
Story: Samuel has told of his ordeal to help others who may be going through similar experiences with parents who don't accept their sexuality

'It's not the thing to say to someone standing on the edge of a building,' Samuel said.
He eventually came down and convinced his parents he had, in fact, changed - a façade that he maintained until leaving home for university, and one which brought an end to his brutal therapy.
After coming to terms with his sexuality away from home, Samuel returned to come out to them once again.
He told his mother and after she told his father he returned to find all his belongings outside the front door.
He has since been warned by his father that he will kill him if he ever comes back.
'I've tried to call them multiple times,' he said. 'I try to keep calling. I want contact. 
'The last time [my dad told me] he would shoot me if I ever tried to walk in the door again.'





Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Look Younger in an Instant With the Four Seasons’ Ultra Regenerating Facial

Plastic surgery be damned! A new treatment at the Four Seasons Los Angeles at Beverly Hills is making it much safer and easier to take years off your appearance. The Ultra Regenerating Facial is a miracle worker of sorts and includes a microdermabrasion, mini lift, and mega hydration all done with the ULTRA Machine.
We were recently treated to the 90-minute Four Seasons Regenerating Facial and it completely transformed our dry, over traveled, sun damaged, skin. The process is a pleasure. The machine’s technology enables the technician to do ultrasonic resurfacing, which eliminates dead skin cells without harsh abrasion. It also uses a custom selected serum and red and blue LED therapy to speed up healing and collagen production, which leads to a plumper and fresher complexion. Best of all, micro-currents make it possible to lift and tone the muscles of the face and neck for a firm finish. Plus it’s all painless and pleasant, which is surprising considering the results.
We left feeling far more vibrant and beautiful than when we came in. Whether your hitting the red carpet, have an important affair to attend, or simply want to treat yourself to a transformative treatment, we suggest you book this treatment.

5 Easy Ways To De-Stress

The pressures of everyday life can take a serious toll on our physical and mental well-being. Between mile-long to-do lists, family and relationship obligations, and full-time jobs, it’s easy to get so wound up, we forget to breathe and reboot. Fortunately, there are relatively simple ways to decompress—all you need to do is carve out a little “me” time. Try these tips and let the stress melt away.
1) Take a Long Bath
There are few things more relaxing than a hot bath. For an extra-soothing experience, light aromatherapy candles and add a luxurious bath oil to smooth and nourish your skin. Once you sink in, you’ll immediately start to feel the problems of the day melting away. Ahhhhhh.
Boots Original Beauty Formula Bath Oil, $11.99 at Drugstore.com | Jo Malone Red Roses Bath Oil, $65 at JoMalone.com | Fresh Rice Sake Bath, $80 at Sephora.com
2) Exercise
Okay, we know that heading to a crowded gym is probably the last thing you want to do after a grueling day at the office, but it’s also one of the most beneficial things you can do for both your body and mind. Not only does it combat countless health conditions and keep your figure svelte, exercise has been proven to significantly improve moods and reduce stress. Plus, it’s a great way to release any pent-up negative energy you may be holding onto inside.
3) Self-Massage
How can you be expected to relax your mind when your body is tense? Fortunately you don’t need a personal massage therapist to relieve tension, aches, and pains. There’s also very little technique required to give yourself a satisfying massage—just grab a bottle of body lotion or oil and get to work on your hands, feet, shoulders, or anywhere that needs a little TLC.
Bliss Lemon + Sage Body Butter, $49 at BlissWorld.com | Olay Advanced Healing Intensive Lotion, $9.99 at Drugstore.com | L’Occitane Almond Supple Skin Oil, $34 at Usa.Loccitane.com
4) Pamper Yourself
Who says you need to go to a spa to treat yourself? There are tons of easy, DIY therapies you can do right from your own home. Try exfoliating your skin from head to toe with a moisturizing body scrub or treat your tresses to a luxurious hair mask. You’ll not only feel better on the inside, but you’ll look better on the outside, too.
Clinique Sparkle Skin Body Exfoliating Cream, $21 at Clinique.com | Kerastase Masquintense, $60 atKerastase-USA.com | Neutrogena Sugar Scrub Body Exfoliator, $8.55 at Drugstore.com
5) Put On Your Favorite Music Or Movie
When it comes down to it, relaxation is all about what makes you feel good. If it’s just one of those days (and going to the gym is just out of the question, thank you very much), sometimes just vegging out with a DVD you love or putting on your favorite tunes is a great way to unwind.